BLOGPOST #9: Learning Obedience Outside of Your Comfort Zone

Yesterday I read the article that suits my personality and I'm not a mother like the author said but I'm the girl that same situation from the author. I also get nervous when people telling me what they don't want to hear. And my experience in every moment in time gives me motivation to do my responsibilities in life.

The article that I read the title "Learning Obedience Outside of Your Comfort Zone" by Grace Houle, she said that our flaw of obedience have less to do with making ourselves look great and more with showing that our own route in deciding to course of our obedient. The extraordinary that we can do to look great.

In our routine from obedience that we feel and grip the chore before us, and it would so much easy if the task was asked to us . The things that take a little no effort. But we exceed from our own actions because we command us by them.

According to Grace Houle "We may stay where we are and turn a blind eye to what we for."

I agree because every people have their own mind to decide what they want for them and maybe one of us are having excuse why they don't to go. I also having an excuse cause I know that I can not to let go my comfort zone and its so personal for me that reason to say for this blog. But for now I want to be proud my parents and to prove them that I can survive and to be a successful person.

This article wrote by Sarah Bubar the titled "How Adult Children can Honor and Obey" and she said that we have our own custom to obey our parents and respect them with authority that we should follow for our own lives but now in our society, the children change by the environment and the people surround them. If our parents teach us a values that every old people have to be respect and integrity to them. To obey elders are just like our parents.

To have a balance for respecting and honoring to our parents and friends or someone that we given, and it should been balance both of them. Our parents opinions are more weight than any body else because our blood comes from to our parents.

According to Sarah Bubar "You can honor your parents without necessarily obeying them."

I agree because honoring and obeying your parents its your responsibility even though they not a good parents for you but still your not born in this world without them. I always be thankful what I am now cause I know there's a reason why I'm here and I am thankful to have them and to have a good life.

For my conclusion, people have own obedience in the comfort zone. Deciding by our own decision in life and to feel better to what is decisions. I myself having this situation that I don't want to go and now feeling me realized to do it because its better for me.

BLOGPOST #8 : The Relationship Between Trust and Obedience

In my experience, I don't want to give trust to the person that didn't giving his/her trust also for me and I obeying my on rules by giving them my full trust. I experience that I give them my trust but this time my full trust got me in to worst because they not obeying my rules. And also the power of obedience has of making things easy which seem impossible.

I read the article titled "The Relationship Between Trust and Obedience" by Brandon he said that our greater obedience that comes with our own greater trust. If we know that more difficult to accept with greater obedience to greater trust because for the author mentioned that is our own responsibility. In everyday idea that didn't have significance by in our living world.

According to Brandon "You can have the trust you need to have substantial obedience."

I agree because to have a trust we should to obey our own rules and this trust are easily to be gone, if we don't follow the rules that we make by ourselves or to someone that we give for them. My parents give me a trust with the rules that I promise to never been broken the rules that they made for me, the trust that they give to me is my substantial. I know the truth in everybody is going to hurt and we just gotta find the ones worth suffering.

The second article titled "Trust and obey" by R.C. Sproul Jr. he said that we have own perspective and believing to what we are now, the life to live good for us to be thankful and we blessed. The life of a living human beings are like a hamster wheel cause we simple to follow our generation and believing that we have anything worth must terrible to figure out how to get that the world tell us that our key to a good life is to have a good education.

We must know that we create our own life to be better or not. Likely a circulation of blood to our body that circulate everyday in our life, that we obeying our simple life with trust and authority.

According to R.C. Sproul Jr. " There is no need to toss and turn all night wondering what you should do differently to make a better life."

I disagree because we have our own perspective in life, I believe that there's a wonderful life for us if we have a positive vibes in everyday life. There's no perfect and better life if we believe that its impossible to make or to have.

I conclude that in the relationship of trust and obedience are responsibility to one another, and also for me our disapperance of a sense of responsibility is the most far reaching consequence of the authority. Then, the authority with our own trust to obey both of our own decisions.

BLOGPOST #7: The Filipino Obeying their Traditional Superstition

In our house we have four siblings and my parents salary are sometimes too much but we eat three times a day and it's good for us. But what if we are from a big family and my parents have are not so good salary? Well, this time my blog talks about the obeying traditional superstition of Filipino. How they obey their own superstition, I know most of our superstition are in from the Chinese.

I read the article written by Cecil Abundo titled "Filipino Customs and Traditions" she said, most of the Filipinos are having a unique traits when it comes to our family and it have more cultural values that we have. Our family take care and to being loyal to each of the family member and also elders by obeying their authorities. In addition, Filipinos are having a reunions in any occasions. The Filipino people valued not only our cultivation and superstitions but the spirit of our family.

As I am Filipino I proudly to say that we are blessed to have with a strong family ties, and superstitious beliefs have been grown throughout the country.

According to Cecil Abundo, "Filipino believe that there is nothing to lose if they will comply with these beliefs."

I strongly agree because my family believe that thinking and I adopt it cause their always say that to me. Some of us are not believe that because they know that there's no will be happen if you don't try. The traditions are adopting by the people surrounds you.

According to the article titled "Filipino Superstition about New Year's Eve" by Jane Dacumos for her, she didn't believe in superstition but almost of her family obeying the old superstitions and they believing that there are giving them a luck for there own life, they not contradict that tradition from other country. That's why she obey whatever they say to him because in there mind, they did not lose everything if they try it.

According to Jane Dacumos, "Whether we believe or not in these superstitions, it is more important to have a positive outlook."

I agree because from the author she believe that we decide by our own beliefs. And even if the other country have more superstitions we should not go for or do it, cause for my own perspective that superstitions from the other country will affect to our own traditions and culture.

I conclude that even though there's a lot of superstition from other country we should not change it and obey all of the traditions that we might know from their. For me fear is the main source of superstition that's why I conquer fear is the beginning of my wisdom.

BLOGPOST #6 : Extreme Disobedience in Children

To my experience of having a disobedience to my parents order or any body else, are think me what I am. Because to ordering you to anywhere are feeling me irritable and angry. My mom always command me and I don't know if I obey her or not but I did, because I don't want to make a war in our house. So, I try to obey her order and I trying for disobedience my conscience.

The article that I read titled "Extreme Disobedience in Children", by Candice Hughes. the statement from the author was that some of extreme disobedience from the kids is into the appearance of his/her environment. The child that has a chronically disobedient are the once who don't want obeying the authorized person. Into our own school can cause us extreme disobedience.

According to Candice Hughes, "Problems at home or school could causing your child to act out."

I agree because our problem in our house affect my behavior, I have no more doing in our house if I'm in feeling irritable and I don't want any body else to talking me. I'm always be alone if I'm feeling that because I don't want to hurt someone. I always depressed when my parents have a problem to financial or emotional. In my perception sooner and later will be gone.

My friend have experienced this kind of behavior and her parents don't know how to control her behavior. Maybe her behavior affects the relationship to her family and people who cares her.

While reading this article of Erica Loop titled "Places for Disobedient Teens" she said that some of the teens they spend time in typical places that they must attended, not only for school and house but most of the time they want go there instead of the school. Additionally, for teens that having that cases, it would help them if we shall detain them because they giving them a activities that it should work for their behavior.

According to Erica Loop, "Your teen can find help herself around with expert help."

I also agree because like my friend that they don't know how to control her behavior. And the good thing that I can help is to suggest that she should consult a doctor for her good. To advice her parents to how she control.

In my conclusion, I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving. Loving my friend are the one's that I can not give up to her disobedience. I know being a friend are giving her positive mind and to obey my goal in life for her on good. It has taken me so many years to be okay with being different, and giving her a live.

BLOGPOST #5: Should We Obey All Laws?

I remember the time when I was watching the movie titled "The Purge". The Purge is an event that occurs every year and 12 hour period during which all criminal activity, the purge is legal to them. To kill is legal? And for all political movements have been shut down by the government, it is used a method of artificial population control, as the poorer and homeless people are the main targets. That movie tells me and realize me that some how maybe the purge is their. But I don't want to have that government because I want to live and to have a better life.

Last time I post my second blog that talks about moral obligation to obey the law, and if you remember that I mentioned my being disobedience to the rules and for us to know that we should obey our all laws, that's why in this article titled "Should We Obey All Laws?" by Walter E. Williams the author's said that in the person was not would find of each one of those laws either it just awful and to be clear from violation in our personality that to think of all acts of the congress was rightful to our respect and obedient. And also to find out what person will be submitting to and we have found out the exact amount of our own right and that the wrong would be put them.

According to Walter Williams, "Moral people can't solely on the courts to establish what's right or wrong."

In the movie titled Miracle in cell no. 7, the character of a dad have a mental disorder that he wrongly accused and sentenced to death for the rape-murder of a girl. But her daughter tried her best to have a justice to his father, what if she don't know the law? And she will solve this case.

So, I agree because I've encounter this into my friend experience, he don't know if the court was doing the right. And I'm thinking that if my friend is saying the truth, but like of us we don't know what is right cause for me I believed her saying and to know her that she is my friend and I'm here for her. Sometimes their judge my friend even if they don't know what is true and people can't surely know if they in the court.

According to the article titled "Should we obey governments that are bad?" by Matt Slick he said, we obeying our governments but if they violate the rules that they declared will not be follow. And if our governments are declared that we should kill the Asians or people that have an illness, we should to disobey. Because it’s wrong to declare that, and some of the member in the congress are being corrupt. Matt asked that if the obedience of our law is demanded, it shall not be ask as a favor. The punishment making us to obey the command from them because they have an authority.

According to Matt Slick, "Obey your parents and do not murder."

I agree because we teach us to obey the elders, specially to them as our parents and respecting them. And if my parents sermon us because I'm do a bad things, I'm ignoring that. But some of us are not obeying the elders and they are resent their parents instead of saying them a thank you for all that they have done.

I conclude that if that kind of law will be implemented here in the Philippines, of course a lot of Filipino will be against. The Government is flawed for even suggesting this. Why have a civilization if society is no longer interested in being civilized? you cannot compare animal intrinsic to people. We are not primitive beings that need to hunt and the battle over who is the strongest. We are human beings, which means we require some emotional ties to people.

BLOGPOST #4 Obedience as the Conversation of Love

Have you ever encounter your crush or inspiration to talk him/her and have a conversation to know each other. For my experience, to have a conversation to them it feels me nervous so that I can't start to have a conversation because of my behavior. I don't know why I'm nervous and I go away and I always imagine that we are talking together and knowing ourselves and yet we have a conversation that feel me love and fall in love. To obey my feelings to him are so wonderful to have that and everyday we are in contact with the people to think and believing than us.

For this article titled "Obedience as the Conversation of Love" by Lectio Divina, he said that obedience to love for him is freedom because from his perspective that love is not easy, especially it gives us orders that we do not understand and it consider a limit from our freedom. Obedience from him is a way of our life and that freedom is not a contradictory because obedience is our own fruit of love. And also there's no love without conformitty. So, for example we have a conversation to your crushes are also having you a feeling to have a love on him/her cause you obeying your mind and heart to talk for your crush and to create the conversation. We must have a freedom to obey our own mind and to choose whatever we decided, if we follow or not at least it would be try.

According to Lectio Devina "To obey comes from the Latin, and means to listen, to hear each other."

I agree because if we don't have ears to listen to others for have a time to talked about what they want to say. We didn't create a conversation for us to have our own moment and to knowing them.Elders and parents that want to talk us for a reason, but how to hear them if we don't have a freedom to hear for us to know what they want to say. That's why we creating a conversation by listening to them cause we have ears and also to discover our love to one of them as a conversation.

And also, for the article titled "Having an attitude of obedience" by Joyce Meyer that she said, to obedient in the big things or it would be a little things, for day in and day out that no longer we can do on our own strength and but obedience was sometimes hard but we can do what ever we need to do and not only that. We also learn to do it with our smiles from our faces and if we have an a positive mind and the negative energy should be gone, if we believe in it to make it happen.

According to Joyce Meyer, "In ways you can't even begin to imagine."

I agree because to imagine that all things are possible to all the time that you have everyday it gives you a motivation to go forward and to start a new beginning for tomorrow, obedience brings to us peace in our on decision making. If we have firmly made up our minds to follow the command we will not have to decide which path to take when temptation comes our way.

For my conclusion, I'm understand that the conversation for our inspiration are giving us feeling to love and to fall even we knowing him one's. And good attitude in everyday life takes us positive every minute of time, and if our inspiration can learn a lot from the elders: obedience, loyalty, attitude, respect and importance of love are giving us happy for all girls.

And to giving us a reasons to love and to obeying our own mind and heart, we have a reason to prove that they want him as our love. So that our positive thinking give us luck for all boys that we are encounter and for the life we really want to live.

BLOGPOST #3: Is There a Moral Obligation to Obey the Law?

I do disobey some rules in the school, mall and I walk the street that I regulate the rules. I admitted that I'm disobeying the rules and policies because I'm thinking that never one see me to my disobedience. I don't know if some civil disobedience has an any effect for the government and I can promise that has a great affect to the person that choose to doing it. But sometimes I'm scared to obey the policies because maybe they saw me and got me into the jail for being disobedience, then I finally follow the sign board or either the rules and regulation for my safety also.

In the article titled, "I just don't, it's illegal" Is there a moral obligation to obey the law?" by Samantha she said that the law itself is requisition if we obey it. Law was having the moral explanation or it and a practical argument for us to know. To make decision about how relate that understand. And even if someone that think they are to excuse in ignoring the time law in situation that won't have any matter. We have the reason to follow even if we didn't want to do, just for us to would be safe.

According to Samantha,"That our own moral and practical judgement are often relevant to obedient the law."

I agreed because if we don't obey the law it could be worst for us, the practically following the law are for us to be safe and we don't ever bother our families and we also are not obligation to follow the law simply because we have own perspective to follow the law.

Into the second article titled "The Role of Obedience in Society" by Nicholas P. Leveillee he said that in how can obedient institution does separate can lose it without people show in human unique are often daze obedience can feel us a position to power. They order humans to maintain the individual and to have in strong society, as a balance among obedience and minor. From society can make us people to obey for our own individual concern to our institute and to oblige people surround us.

According to Nicholas Leveillee,"If one of as has a choice to follow the ordered or assert their individuality the decision should be their to make."

I agree because one of us are having the decision to make and to decide for obeying the rules is for our on good cause we are individually having our own talents and minds that we have.

This two article are having me to realized to what makes me important and to what I'm doing to the past and to inspiring me and motivating me to go forward into the future cause I'm not doing anymore mistakes that I've done before.

To conclude this is like that obedience is an act of faith and disobedience is the result of unbelief. And obedience brings peace in decision making, if we have firmily made up our minds to follow the commandments. We will not have to undecided which path to take when temptation comes our way.

BLOGPOST #2: Why Obedience is Better Than Sacrifice

In my experience, I sacrifice my love for my grandfather because I want to obey his decision and rules that I'm not have a boyfriend till I'm studying. But in my case I understand what he wants for me and I think that it's my decision if I obey or disobey him. For me sacrifice is not easy to give up or to decide because what if you sacrifice the person or thing for you is important. I know that if I sacrifice something that was important for me and I realized that my decision is wrong and you cannot undo the thing that you decide for.

In the article of Ben Sternke titled "why obedience is Better than sacrifice", according to him obey is just like to follow our parents to what they order us because for him to sacrifice by your love-ones to prove that you love them is usually were doing to our parents. Obedience is better than sacrifice to trial that we saying thank you for giving me a life that never been happen to you're sacrifice.

According to Ben Sternke, "Obedience as a response for our divine love that always leads to dependence."

I agree to the authors said because love to oneself and to response for our parents are giving them back because they sacrifice by there own life to give us future and better life that we have now.

The second article that I've read with the same titled "Why obedience is Better than Sacrifice" by Dr. Mannie Brodie that he mentioned, we required to be obedient and to change our present situation if we start to obey the elders. like this we sacrifice with our own heart and mind that gives them happiness. To willing us became obedience person should be given the laying on of hands that we want. Just sacrifice with full feeling when you achieve your price any time just trust in it.

According to Dr. Mannie Brodie, "You can choose to sin, but you cannot choose the consequences of your disobedience or sin against God's Word."

I also agree because like he said choosing to become a sinner is just like obeying the demons, I cannot choose the consequence for my disobedience against the God's word it should become a sin. And I can choose the sin because some of us are having a sin either you know or not but for our God he knows everything. And it is about willingly giving something of personal value without expecting anything in return.

I myself that to being sacrifice is not only you can move forward or if I have just wrong decision to make and realizing those mistakes that motivating me to think more before I decided cause no one can go back the past. So, for reading this two articles are having me a knowledge to know my mistakes or the God's word.

I conclude that, if I sacrifice someone that I live is just once that I sacrifice but for our God's we sacrifice our sins to live us and protect us as his child. I believed that in the God's word we knowing him and w have to faith on him cause for giving him the life that we have now. And it's a far, far better thing that I do, than I have ever done and it is a far, far better rest that I go to than I have ever known.