BLOGPOST #6 : Extreme Disobedience in Children

To my experience of having a disobedience to my parents order or any body else, are think me what I am. Because to ordering you to anywhere are feeling me irritable and angry. My mom always command me and I don't know if I obey her or not but I did, because I don't want to make a war in our house. So, I try to obey her order and I trying for disobedience my conscience.

The article that I read titled "Extreme Disobedience in Children", by Candice Hughes. the statement from the author was that some of extreme disobedience from the kids is into the appearance of his/her environment. The child that has a chronically disobedient are the once who don't want obeying the authorized person. Into our own school can cause us extreme disobedience.

According to Candice Hughes, "Problems at home or school could causing your child to act out."

I agree because our problem in our house affect my behavior, I have no more doing in our house if I'm in feeling irritable and I don't want any body else to talking me. I'm always be alone if I'm feeling that because I don't want to hurt someone. I always depressed when my parents have a problem to financial or emotional. In my perception sooner and later will be gone.

My friend have experienced this kind of behavior and her parents don't know how to control her behavior. Maybe her behavior affects the relationship to her family and people who cares her.

While reading this article of Erica Loop titled "Places for Disobedient Teens" she said that some of the teens they spend time in typical places that they must attended, not only for school and house but most of the time they want go there instead of the school. Additionally, for teens that having that cases, it would help them if we shall detain them because they giving them a activities that it should work for their behavior.

According to Erica Loop, "Your teen can find help herself around with expert help."

I also agree because like my friend that they don't know how to control her behavior. And the good thing that I can help is to suggest that she should consult a doctor for her good. To advice her parents to how she control.

In my conclusion, I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving. Loving my friend are the one's that I can not give up to her disobedience. I know being a friend are giving her positive mind and to obey my goal in life for her on good. It has taken me so many years to be okay with being different, and giving her a live.