Chapter 1
INTRODUCTION
Such a wonderful consisting of people believe about the good obedience. There’s a part that obedience are having a process which was to believe that obedience is good and life become wonderful if we obey the rules or make our own path ways. As we grow up they teach us to how we obey elders and we must be blessed if we doing the right thing without questioning. For us to have our own perspective to think that obedience is good and what we want to achieve. We know for a fact that obedience is good, but have we never notice why obedience is good? We obey our elders and parents to do something but then they pushes us even though we don't like either its bad or good thing to do.
According to Ariadne, she studied that too much strangled to your children can cause bad behavior, their children have behavior of sense of self work is not important having their own decisions they feel less self-esteem. Did you know that demanding parents to their child threaten to punish them for do not obeying them and it cause to bully at home. Also there will be conflict between a parent and child because damaging their self-esteem brakes a trust as a parents to them.
According to Cindy Hess Kasper, she experiences that after her had knee- replacement surgery she knew to our discomfort without good stretching are can cause to our disabled and cause to depress. But she knew that a good stretching in our daily life is a blessing.
The researcher observes that obedience are known and changing our lives by obeying our taught and mind from the people surrounds us because of the influence of elders and parents that based in real life. Persons believing what people says to the fact that obeying someone or something, and authority that we lead us to be blessed and safe by obeying their rules. And that causes blind obedience to change it. But still, they believing that truth obedience is never be good because the one that obedience is blind just like believing it that they had heard before.
It is certainly know what obedience is since we adopt or we teach us from our parents and elders, we have a thought about it since birth, it’s just we don’t know why they teach us and we only known that was right. But how so much obedience could lead us to negative consequences?
The purpose of the paper is to discuss the negative side of obedience that parents can cause blind obedience to their children to gain knowledge that there are bad result to your children that can harmful to their health that they are not aware that too much is bad can cause blind obedience to children.
B. Statement of the Problem
This study aims to answer this question:
1.What are the negative sides of obedience?
C. Significance of the Study
Person: This research would help people know about blind obedience and if person confused about decisions to make and understand our consciousness in multiple things. To us inspire to achieve the right and goals to make it happen.
Family: This is for parents and children to know what would make the person feel about too much obedience can cause to negative obedience, and in spite of doing negative obedience.
Future Researchers: To gain further understanding about the question "How can blind obedience affect person's life?" since most of the information given on our social media site are not properly compiled in order or in one topic.
D. Scope and Delimitation This study focuses on the readers to gain knowledge and reason of having a thinking of why obedience is blind. Obedience is good and most people believe that it is a virtue to the person life, but obedience gave a big impact to the persons by stating the reason why. Information gathered to conclude the reasons to answer this question. Since we no further topic or blog did research about the question.
E. Materials and Methods These describe the original topic, information are taken from the articles in the social media, from the books and personal experience in through social internet communities, groups and some individuals comment or suggestion, then it would understand, and then share it to the other people surrounds you for them to gain knowledge about the topic. By reading books and some articles I gather a lot of information and to understand each word inside the articles and books in such to rephrase the explanation for make it simple. Most information was from my past experiences.
F. Definition of Terms
Strangled: To stop something from growing or developing
Self-Esteem: A feeling of having respect for yourself and abilities
What are the negative sides of obedience?
I. Definition and types of obedience
Definition of obedience knows an act. They are intake for our society to work and that the power to give orders. Obedience is defined as "blindly obedient" it is labelled by religious groups. Religions that only exist in our society which is too discouraged blind obedience. The changes describe how we think and act every part of our lives. Some religions don't want blind obedience, they want us to be obedient in truth to our life.
The concept of obedience is that human behavior, the social influence that the persons expressed instructions from the authority. And also the obedience can be seen as immoral or moral, if the person doesn't want to do something by giving his or her order it tend to call that immoral, but if the persons is willing to do something they called that moral behavior.
In the article titled "Negative and positive obedience in society: " the author says that obedience person's destructive obedience that against moral values. Thus, Stanley Milgram researched and proves that someone who obey orders with negative, immoral consequences and it blame on the authority because individuals are simply obeying orders that they do not accept responsibilities for their actions.
II. Factor influencing obedience
A. Trained to obey
According to Ariadne, "Shame is the most disturbing experience individuals ever have about themselves; no other emotion feels more deeply disturbing because in the moment of shame the self feels wounded from within."(http://www.authenticparenting.info/2012/05/are-you-damaging-your-child-by.html)We were experienced the time that our life having miserable because we obeying our parents, but sometimes we realize that we have our own decisions to make. There is actually a lot of things that could probably happened the same once we see results and we start to think of possibilities, and assume that thing could probably happen in a certain idea that could really elaborate a lot of words.
According to Cindy Hess Kasper, she experiences that after her had knee- replacement surgery she knew to our discomfort without good stretching are can cause to our disabled and cause to depress. But she knew that a good stretching in our daily life is a blessing.
According to Cindy Hess Kasper, "When you bodily step out in faith and obedience to God, you may be surprised at how a good stretch can strengthen your spiritual life!" OurDailyBreadwithScripturetext(July-Decemeber2008).(Volume14-BMetroManila)Yes we may surprise but just obeying our life and some of people don't believing this. Theirs certain situation and people doing this in real life, this results of helping the person with the idea of not to lose membrane the two factors having faith in God and believing yourself at the same time to be blessed.
The researcher observes that obedience are known and changing our lives by obeying our taught and mind from the people surrounds us because of the influence of elders and parents that based in real life. Persons believing what people says to the fact that obeying someone or something, and authority that we lead us to be blessed and safe by obeying their rules. And that causes blind obedience to change it. But still, they believing that truth obedience is never be good because the one that obedience is blind just like believing it that they had heard before.
It is certainly know what obedience is since we adopt or we teach us from our parents and elders, we have a thought about it since birth, it’s just we don’t know why they teach us and we only known that was right. But how so much obedience could lead us to negative consequences?
The purpose of the paper is to discuss the negative side of obedience that parents can cause blind obedience to their children to gain knowledge that there are bad result to your children that can harmful to their health that they are not aware that too much is bad can cause blind obedience to children.
B. Statement of the Problem
This study aims to answer this question:
1.What are the negative sides of obedience?
C. Significance of the Study
Person: This research would help people know about blind obedience and if person confused about decisions to make and understand our consciousness in multiple things. To us inspire to achieve the right and goals to make it happen.
Family: This is for parents and children to know what would make the person feel about too much obedience can cause to negative obedience, and in spite of doing negative obedience.
Future Researchers: To gain further understanding about the question "How can blind obedience affect person's life?" since most of the information given on our social media site are not properly compiled in order or in one topic.
D. Scope and Delimitation This study focuses on the readers to gain knowledge and reason of having a thinking of why obedience is blind. Obedience is good and most people believe that it is a virtue to the person life, but obedience gave a big impact to the persons by stating the reason why. Information gathered to conclude the reasons to answer this question. Since we no further topic or blog did research about the question.
E. Materials and Methods These describe the original topic, information are taken from the articles in the social media, from the books and personal experience in through social internet communities, groups and some individuals comment or suggestion, then it would understand, and then share it to the other people surrounds you for them to gain knowledge about the topic. By reading books and some articles I gather a lot of information and to understand each word inside the articles and books in such to rephrase the explanation for make it simple. Most information was from my past experiences.
F. Definition of Terms
Strangled: To stop something from growing or developing
Self-Esteem: A feeling of having respect for yourself and abilities
Chapter 2
DISCUSSION
What are the negative sides of obedience?
I. Definition and types of obedience
Definition of obedience knows an act. They are intake for our society to work and that the power to give orders. Obedience is defined as "blindly obedient" it is labelled by religious groups. Religions that only exist in our society which is too discouraged blind obedience. The changes describe how we think and act every part of our lives. Some religions don't want blind obedience, they want us to be obedient in truth to our life.
The concept of obedience is that human behavior, the social influence that the persons expressed instructions from the authority. And also the obedience can be seen as immoral or moral, if the person doesn't want to do something by giving his or her order it tend to call that immoral, but if the persons is willing to do something they called that moral behavior.
In the article titled "Negative and positive obedience in society: " the author says that obedience person's destructive obedience that against moral values. Thus, Stanley Milgram researched and proves that someone who obey orders with negative, immoral consequences and it blame on the authority because individuals are simply obeying orders that they do not accept responsibilities for their actions.
According to Brittany Kennedy "To have a civil society, we must take full responsibility for our own actions and attempt to use our obedient behavior toward a positive and progressive cause."(http://hubpages.com/hub/Obedience-The-Power-to-Corrupt-or-Change)Such as our own behavior can lead us to negative or positive ways, but obedience actions we can attempt it because of being our own responsibilities that would provide us in civil society. Many people believe and take the position that true obedience is blind. They feel that if a person in authority doing decisions and within it decision or command shall we follow even if without question and that person in authority is simply gave it. While in obedience there are limited chances and situations in which the person would be obligated by trusting only from source of the directive, as real obedience is never been blind. A virtue is relating to the justice, which means that obedience requires the uses of judicious and the knowledge of rights. Without such knowledge, the person would exposure to possible loss acting in a behavior inconsistent with virtue.
II. Factor influencing obedience
A. Trained to obey
In the novel written by Kurt Vonnegut's titled sirens of titan, inside of the novel comparing it into military systems. From the book said that in one man is an army on mars, each of soldier is taken from the earth, has their memory erased, and antenna is installed in their brain, to accept their command and the soldiers that have a power to control others.
III. The Four Types of Obedience
According to Kurt Vonnegut's, "They are forced to join an army on Mars that consists of the outcasts of the Earth, who are brainwashed into human machines and consequently lose their identity."http://webdoc.sub.gwdg.de/edoc/ia/eese/artic99/klein2/5_99.htmlSimply obeying to someone those has an authority or the power, to give us command and we all just doing the orders as our own responsibility. Thinking somehow that we must have freedom to choose by obeying or disobeying their command, doing their orders because they have the authority to make us follow whatever they saying.
III. The Four Types of Obedience
A. The Sense of Duty, Soldiers’ Obedience.
In the sense of duty by the soldier obedience is an act and it can form by following their rules. This could be happen that all of us are becoming their slaves because in their mind that they having the power to control us, and we don’t think that this is not just right.
Obedience in soldiers that has a sense of duties of a service in one soldier, and it is the central duties from that duty of obedience. Furthermore, legislator in demand of obedience, this is not a blind or unconditional obedience, and oath of the service in the soldier of the Germany demanded of every soldier.
Obedience in soldiers that has a sense of duties of a service in one soldier, and it is the central duties from that duty of obedience. Furthermore, legislator in demand of obedience, this is not a blind or unconditional obedience, and oath of the service in the soldier of the Germany demanded of every soldier.
According to , “The law on the legal limits to the military ordering authority arise.” https://www.icrc.org/customary-ihl/eng/docs/v2_cou_de_rule154
The time by giving them orders, they were having the power to control us. Are their just from the institution and its legal process by explaining the author that military are doing their job. As we don’t know that from our duties in life are behalf of our life, because we also create our own command by others.
B. The Higher Paid, Servant Obedience.
C. The Divisions from Love, Lovers Obedience
Someone would do this because they love each other, we all loving someone to comfort us that how a beautiful life that we have now, such that we giving all that they want from us. But we already know what love is? Yes we know the definition of love and we can define that, likewise we have our own perspective in how and what we give to love someone else. In my generation we are obeying our on heart and not our mind, and we thinking that it is right. Knowing someone that you love is not easy because we knowing them if we are married but sometime. We give all of our time and care to prove that we love them, and also for saying to them.
Even though we know how to love, but still there’s a research that our love is the highest type of obedience from the article. According to an article “Four Types of Obedience” by John Grant, love is having three types. One is intellect and discrimination of obedience because to him our mind obeying it technically. Second, unwilling literal obedience because if the person doe job touching his wish. And the third one is that willing literal obedience, if the person gladly doing job and happy to obey even if the order is hard. This step of love by obeying the person is to love even if the command is difficult to do, the happy person doing this with love.
II. Fact of Obedience
A. The Blind Obedience
We trust lawfully authority and some people trust direct without fail. But we’re just faced with the directive, to neither good nor bad attempt to know options and consequences their choices. And yet we simply trust lawful authority to stay within the obliged its power. Thinking of this attitude is not true obedience and not virtuous. We share freedom to Christ, is that our obligation knowing legitimate bound to lawful authority that we stay within the power. Our obligation to know the Divine Law and what is our obligations to God. Maybe only knowledgeable of Divine Law can legitimate to bound lawful authorities that can we obey. If without such a knowledge, they manipulative or simply conformity to peers.
Also, lawful authority has to be obliged to prove their rank and to done within the lawful. And if someone that didn't do his/her obligation being authorized persons, automatically he/she violates the natural rights. According to “Principles of law” identified by Pope Boniface VIII, that he said “one with authority must prove his authority.”
B. The Person Integration of Obedience
All men enjoyed one of the greatest rights that they not violate God that the rights freely choose. They freedom to choose and particular knowledge that the right to choose. It means freedom only allow if the virtue is developed. Which is actually true when the persons free chooses to be act of conformity with a standard direct to obedience. So, the development to virtue of obedience must adequately knowledge to Divine Laws and to those Human Laws that control our own lives. To know the limits of authorized person because if we don’t know we can easily manipulate from them.
B. The Higher Paid, Servant Obedience.
People have thinking that slaves are just slaves and they not have feelings to their jobs. Some people be sold to be as slaves and in their lifetime that serving to their boss. Thinking for their life that never be change because they buy as a slaves to the once that they bought to them. We thinking that slaves can't do exist because they be serving us in their whole life. Doing their jobs as slaves to their master.
From the article written by Steven Wickstrom, he explained why slaves can be sold and what could happen to them. Slaves can be buy because they sold as slave in the public place. And if the person buy, it can be as made into household, that should serve to them. They can not react from their suffering, somehow they knew that hatred were do wrong. They treat a slaves as well and not abuse. Slaves are not just slaves because they doing their job with love to their master.
According to Steven Wickstrom, "Choose to be best servant as you can be." http://www.spwickstrom.com/naaman/
Yes, we can choose how our life be good as well because we know ourselves and we decide to the fact that there's much could we have now. If we can best as much I am now, I would do. We have our own determination like a slave, they determine because they hoping that they will be a master someday and it can be happen if the persons have self determination.
C. The Divisions from Love, Lovers Obedience
Someone would do this because they love each other, we all loving someone to comfort us that how a beautiful life that we have now, such that we giving all that they want from us. But we already know what love is? Yes we know the definition of love and we can define that, likewise we have our own perspective in how and what we give to love someone else. In my generation we are obeying our on heart and not our mind, and we thinking that it is right. Knowing someone that you love is not easy because we knowing them if we are married but sometime. We give all of our time and care to prove that we love them, and also for saying to them.
Even though we know how to love, but still there’s a research that our love is the highest type of obedience from the article. According to an article “Four Types of Obedience” by John Grant, love is having three types. One is intellect and discrimination of obedience because to him our mind obeying it technically. Second, unwilling literal obedience because if the person doe job touching his wish. And the third one is that willing literal obedience, if the person gladly doing job and happy to obey even if the order is hard. This step of love by obeying the person is to love even if the command is difficult to do, the happy person doing this with love.
According to John Grant “This is a progression, at first one intellect prevents one from literal obedience but it is a step. The last type of obedience is very rare, where the person is happy to literally obey the most difficult command with love." (http://www.avatarmeherbaba.org/erics/whowouldobey.html)Obedience through our love became selfish because of our willing to doing something that we don’t asking if they want to do, by decisions in situations is okay for us, but how our partner those have their own thinking and decision to that situation, and we don’t asking them. Instead of having decision to obeying the command, we have to knowing the step before we obey. Moreover, lover is a relationship that we have in our whole life and not just a game that if you bothered to your partner is easy to forget, but it is not easy because love is so much pain for us human beings by followed.
II. Fact of Obedience
A. The Blind Obedience
We trust lawfully authority and some people trust direct without fail. But we’re just faced with the directive, to neither good nor bad attempt to know options and consequences their choices. And yet we simply trust lawful authority to stay within the obliged its power. Thinking of this attitude is not true obedience and not virtuous. We share freedom to Christ, is that our obligation knowing legitimate bound to lawful authority that we stay within the power. Our obligation to know the Divine Law and what is our obligations to God. Maybe only knowledgeable of Divine Law can legitimate to bound lawful authorities that can we obey. If without such a knowledge, they manipulative or simply conformity to peers.
Also, lawful authority has to be obliged to prove their rank and to done within the lawful. And if someone that didn't do his/her obligation being authorized persons, automatically he/she violates the natural rights. According to “Principles of law” identified by Pope Boniface VIII, that he said “one with authority must prove his authority.”
B. The Person Integration of Obedience
All men enjoyed one of the greatest rights that they not violate God that the rights freely choose. They freedom to choose and particular knowledge that the right to choose. It means freedom only allow if the virtue is developed. Which is actually true when the persons free chooses to be act of conformity with a standard direct to obedience. So, the development to virtue of obedience must adequately knowledge to Divine Laws and to those Human Laws that control our own lives. To know the limits of authorized person because if we don’t know we can easily manipulate from them.
Chapter 3
SUMMARY, CONCLUSIONS AND RECOMMENDATIONS
Summary
This research paper aims to determine the negative sides of obedience.
1. There are sides that people are follow of ordering the once that giving it. Most of them are doing to follow and had a reason that they willing to obey and lacking of competence to their selves and confidence that they can positively have a freedom to choose.
2. The person’s preferences as a guide for the negative sides of obedience, person who had a lot of questions and wants to gain further knowledge about obedience for them to get answers that might be connected to the real life.
3. Moral support and behaving behavior to the obedience confidence would really encourage the person willingness to achieve personal goals.
Conclusions
Based on the finding of this study, the following conclusions are drawn:
1. Based on the information that gathered research. Obedience can fix our lives if we followed for it and have the goal to achieve.
2. Some things could possibly be changed if have full understanding about your doing by knowing what it is for and what it is all about.
3. It is difficult to doing a command to a obeying them since there are many things to believe in the negative sides of obedience.
References
A. Books
OurDailyBreadwithScripturetext(July-Decemeber2008).(Volume14-BMetroManila)
B. Electronic Media(http://hubpages.com/hub/Obedience-The-Power-to-Corrupt-or-Change)
http://www.spwickstrom.com/naaman/
http://www.avatarmeherbaba.org/erics/whowouldobey.html
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